Broken Relationships/Friendships

So, lately I have been reading the Bible a lot and it has been teaching me about relationships. Relationships/friendships are one of the most influential connections in someone’s life. When the connection is real it can be life changing. I believe that God makes no mistakes and puts certain people in your life for a reason. If you look at every relationship or friendship you’ve ever been in, you learned at least one thing from it, if not more. And as you grow older these lessons makes their own list of what you want, or don’t want in a relationship. With that being said, things are not always going to be smooth. You’re going to have ups and downs, but this is what ultimately makes your relationship stronger. One of my favorite life quotes is “Anything worth having is worth fighting for.” It’s hard gaining someone’s trust back once you breached it, but do everything you can to try and gain it back. This is no short process it takes a lot of time. If you really care you will go to extreme measures, but one thing you can’t do is fight with someone that’s okay with losing you. Don’t be afraid of losing people, be afraid of losing yourself trying not to lose people. At the end of the day when your heart is pure and true, God has a way of making sure everything works out in your favor. Not everyone is going to accept you and your mistakes, so sometimes you just have to wish them the best and let them go. Even if you don’t want things to end sometimes that is the final result. Wish them nothing but the best, continue to pray for them, love them from afar and move on. If things are meant to be they will be.

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  1. Hey girl,
    So I had a boyfriend in my college that was well known around and I wasn’t as much and that’s because he was an athlete and I’m not. But he at first wouldn’t want to be seen around with me and than I addressed it to him and than he did. A lot of people would see us around. And I felt like that was needed because if you wouldn’t want to show me off that means he is hiding something. Anyways long story short we dated for some time and than we broke up and now a lot of females be around him and stuff and that fucks me over a lot. What should I do to get over it ?


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